Why do we love someone so much that a life without them seems frozen and pointless?Why do some people come into our lives,change it beyond recognition and leave before we are ready to let go?What are we supposed to gain from all the hurt and disappointments?To fall in love with someone is a miracle.To be with someone who loves you too is a blessing.
I believe love teaches us that there is so much in life that we cannot control.That we can only be patient and wait.That we have to accept hurt as a part of loving and be grateful we got to experience that too.It is so difficult to get up from the ruins of our hopes and dreams and move ahead.It takes so much effort to change the way we think and feel.There are so many moments in love that can never be forgotten.How do we hold on to these memories and yet prevent them from hurting us?
Everyone tells you life must go on.You get so caught up with mundane things,but its such a farce really.What does it alter?Nothing.It doesn't change the past,it doesnt change whats built your present.But then amidst all that hoplessness,I still believe in god and fate.I believe in happiness and love even if it has eluded me.What has to be mine will come my way.So I walk on with just pure faith.....
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"Why do we love someone so much that a life without them seems frozen and pointless?"
Found the answer in 3 different books.
1. Phantoms in the brain - VS Ramachandran.
2. The birth of Pleasure - Carol Gilligan
3. The Mating Mind - Geoffrey Miller
sooo couldn't help myself.
george - thanks:-).I am definitely going to look them up.Anything that helps goes.
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